Stay Positive

In times when it seems our entire world is falling apart, things constantly go wrong, and we feel helpless and alone, and at that point, there is a tremendous need for us to stop and take note of where and who we really are. Things can happen around us and things can happen to us, but the most important things are those that occur within us, in our thoughts, perceptions, and emotions.

It is true that every one of us, at one time or another, has faced problems of major complexities. Some have had to deal with matters of health or relationships, whereas others may have dealt with problems pertaining to money. Some of us have had to deal with all three. As long as we are on Earth, we'll have to deal with problems of one sort or another.

Yet, strange as it seems, it's generally not the problems themselves that make for success or failure. It goes far beyond the mere appearances. It's generally the perspective we have on the problems that "make" or "break" us. It's the way we look at things, how we react to situations, and it's what we think about what's happening to us.

Sometimes good things happen to bad people, and bad things happen to good people. But the opposite is also true. Good things do happen to good people, and bad things do happen to bad people. There is no need for us to go into long philosophical ramblings about why such things occur. We'd probably never be able to find out. It would be much more practical to learn how to deal with both good and bad experiences.

I have learned that one of the best things to do when events seem out of control is to stop and take a deep breath, fill my heart with gratitude for where I am and who I am. By this, I mean we should step back from the problem for a short while and realize that the problem came to us to teach us something. We may never be sure of what that "something" is, but rest assured that we will be stronger and better for it. You may not see it while you're going through the trials and tribulations, yet slowly but surely, a better and stronger "you" is being born if you keep a proper perspective.

And don't think for an instant that the Universe has singled you out for trials and suffering. We all have our burdens to bear, some heavier and others lighter. But we can overcome it.

React to situations, if you must. Just remember that you are a spiritual being having a human experience. So do not keep reacting over and over again and feed that fire. Come back to the center of your true inner being and regain your perspective. Become quiet within and return to a place of peace, harmony, and balance within your soul, and the problems will not seem as terrible as they once did.